I celebrated my birthday four times this year with different people.
1st time
- Taiwanese restaurant
- My Hero Academia movie in theatres
- bubble tea
- my friend paid for everything – thank you
- got Detective Conan cosplay, wig, wig cap, Oscar Wilde’s Happy Prince book, metal straws (including bubble tea straw), metal straw cleaner, card – in Kaneki bag
2nd time
- Japanese restaurant
- got Kumamon plush, hand cream that smells really good, postcard
- getting Osamu Dazai’s No Longer Human book
3rd time
- hot pot
- got mustard cardigan, super soft hoodie, concealer, letter
birthday
- first class was cancelled – I slept in and watched anime in bed
- birthday wishes on social media, in person
- free matcha lemonade drink from Blenz
- gifts from parents and brother
- getting free bubble tea from Pearl Fever
- I ordered gifts for myself – cosplay stuff
4th time
- Korean bbq buffet – thank you friends for treating me
- friend picked me up and dropped me home
- got Charmed Aroma candle with ring inside, homemade cupcakes, hand cream that smells really good, false lashes, lip balm, card
- got necklace, strawberry matcha tea, glasses for cosplay, face masks, nose mask, lip mask, card
I also found out this morning that I won BiblioNyan’s giveaway!
I’m writing this post for myself, for my future sad days. When I feel sad, I can read this post and remind myself that I am lucky to have good people in my life. I tend to forget a lot of the things that people do for me.
I wonder if I deserve all of this. I’m struggling with this because I am no one special. I’m not used to this much kindness in my life. I’ve written before that I had a lonely childhood.
Thank you everyone. I hope that I am treating you with as much kindness. I don’t think I am, but I’ll improve on that. Maybe I am too harsh on myself, but these are my true feelings.
Looks like you had a truly amazing and wonderful birthday! To have been able to celebrate it four times, and with so many special people is truly a gift😊 And yes you are too harsh on yourself😉 The only reason that people are treating you with so much kindness is because you are special and a post like this only proves that. So, try not to struggle too much if you can, but just enjoy it😊 Hopefully you will have many more birthdays like this one, because you deserve it! 😀
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Ah, you make a lot of sense Michel! 😀 Thank you very much for the kind words and for making everything clearer to me.
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Wishing you a wonderful birthday!
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Thanks Kathness!
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You deserve all of this and more – it’s not easy to show yourself kindness and accept that you are in fact special as the wonderful individual that are you, but hopefully that will come in time. HAPPY BIRTHDAY and keep being awesome. You are loved, you are worthy. Remember that 🙂
Caz xxxx
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I need to remind myself of this! I hope it will come in time as well. Thank you so much!! xx
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Sounds like you had a fabulous birthday! It’s lovely to know you have had so much celebration for it 😄 I know how easy it is to be hard on yourself but please remember that you are special! There is only one of you in this world and that’s something pretty amazing! 😄
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That is true, that there’s only one of me in the world. Thanks for the encouragement, Sam. ❤
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Of course! I know how easy it is to be hard and negative on yourself but try to keep that fact in mind in those times 😊❤️
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It sounds like a wonderful series of celebrations. I also write about good times to remind myself about them in the future when I have dark days. It works for me,so I hope it works for you too 🙂
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I hope it works for me as well, and I think it will help! I’m glad that writing and blogging helps you too. 🙂
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It sounds like you had the best day ever. You deserve to treat yourself and it’s amazing to have people celebrate this important day. God bless you. 🙂
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Thank you Matt for the kind words!
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You’re welcome Rose. Birthday or not, you should always enjoy any day. Everyday can be a gift and it’s your choice to take it as an opportunity. 🙂
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It sounds like you had a wonderful few days and I’m very happy to hear that 🙂
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Thanks Jon! 😀
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Of course 🙂
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You are being too harsh on yourself. That is an occupational hazard of being creative.
“first class was cancelled” Couldn’t ask for a better gift!
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Thanks Fred. Yes!! That was an amazing birthday gift and I used it wisely on anime hahaha.
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Happy belated birthday, Rose!! I’m glad you made so many neat memories. I also think it’s such a marvellous idea to have posts to help you get through bad days in the future. Wishing many more years of joy and new awesome memories.
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Thank you so much, Neha! ❤ I think it’s a good idea too and I should do it more! Awweh, thank you. xx
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Happy Birthday Rose, hope you had a fabolous day it’s awesome you have friends to share your birthday with also your a great blogger and person I admire your passion for anime, cosplay and music and how was the My Hero Academia:the Movie: Futari no Hero ?
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Thank you Joseph! I’m glad I’m someone you can admire, haha. The movie was really good! I liked the focus on All Might and that we get to learn about his university days. It’s a little sad that two of my favourite characters, Aizawa and Froppy, barely appear but it was still an awesome film!!
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Awesome can’t wait for the world wide release of the My Hero Academia: Two Heroes movie and Froppy is best girl and Aizawa is a great sensei my favourite characters are Deku and Todoroki
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I’m sure you would love the movie!
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Yeah for sure, go beyond plus ultra
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If your friends are treating you this well, Rose, then it’s probably because they truly value spending time with you. And very few of us like hanging around those who bring us down. So chances are that you’re a positive influence on your friends, and that you are treating them with kindness.
That said, there’s always room for more kindness!
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Thanks Josh! You’re right 😄😄
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