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Winning does not make me feel happy, and losing does not make me feel sad. With that being said, I am not competitive at all. Sometimes I lose arguments on purpose and I have no problems apologizing to people. To me, it’s not a question of pride but rather a lack of interest to engage in that interaction.
I hardly catch myself feeling jealous of another person. Some people are really accomplished but I either feel happy for them or I don’t care at all. ‘Not caring’ may sound bad but it’s not. *Shrugs*
All I can say is: good for you. Life is so much easier that way 😊
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Absolutely. That’s why I’m like this haha
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👏👏👏👏 So much YES! 🐬
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Aw, thanks for your words. ^_^
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It’s nice not having to worry about winning or losing. If you know someone who is obsessed with winning,it cam things seem not fun anymore.
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The whole competing with others thing is just so old and tiring. It cramps my style and not worth my time or effort, lol.
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Yeah. Just like Blackbeard from One Piece, some fights are not worth fighting.
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Hahahaha
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Ze hahahaha!
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That’s a good example. In his case it has nothing to do with skill. He’s tough
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Yeah and scary powerful. He doesn’t need to worry.
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Not caring makes your life easier and happier so that’s good for you!
Meanwhile I’m a very competitive person. I find enjoyment in it. Losing might frustrate me but when I win, it’s worth it. I enjoy challenges. Just like how I enjoy banter. I avoid real arguments and drama though. I don’t like them and is a waste of breath.
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I can see how some people are just naturally competitive, and that’s great too. Everyone is different. Ahh I see, I think we kinda talked about this on Twitter too. Thanks for sharing your side of the story Sindy~ c: It makes sense!
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We probably did ><
It's just interesting to have different perspectives.
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Yeah, and it’s fun to talk about them. ^.^
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Yup!
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